In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the Post-Betrayal Transformation Institute, to unpack one of the most painful and misunderstood forms of trauma—betrayal.
Dr. Silber shares her personal journey through betrayal and how it led to groundbreaking research on what makes this kind of trauma unique. We dive into her discovery of ... Show More
Nov 20
How to Heal Your Attachment Style (and Finally Feel Secure in Love)
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into attachment styles — what they are, how they shape your relationships, and most importantly, how to heal them.
If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of partner… why you get anxious when you really like someone… wh ... Show More
45m 34s
Feb 2025
LOVE EXPERT Stephan Speaks: 7 Ways You are Blocking Yourself From Meeting Your Soulmate (Change Your Patterns to Find the ONE)
Do you think your “type” limits you? What’s one unrealistic dating expectation you’ve had? Today, Jay welcomes back one of the most insightful voices in modern dating and relationships, Stephan Speaks. If you’ve been searching for clarity in love, struggling with self-worth in da ... Show More
1h 28m
Mar 2025
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)
Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidd ... Show More
1h 4m
Mar 2025
106: The Art of Being Chosen: 20 Feminine Secrets That Make Men Step Up.
<p>There’s a reason some women are unforgettable. In this video, I’m sharing 19 <em>feminine habits</em> that instantly shift how men see you—from “just a girl” to the one they admire, cherish, and <em>deeply value</em>.</p><p>These aren’t surface-level tips. They’ ... Show More
11m 49s
Sep 3
Command Respect in Your Relationship 3 Do's and Dont's Every Woman Needs to Know
In this episode, I’m diving deep into one of the most important elements of a healthy relationship: respect. Because love, attention, and attraction are beautiful—but if he doesn’t respect you, none of it lasts.I share 3 things you should never do if you want to keep his respect, ... Show More
19m 23s
May 2025
Sadia Khan: Stop Ignoring Red Flags! (How to Train Your Brain to Know When To Walk Away)
Does anything in your life feel a little “off” right now? Do you feel like you're settling for less than you deserve? Today, Jay sits down with Sadia Khan, psychotherapist and relationship expert, for a deep and unfiltered conversation on love, commitment, and emotional healing i ... Show More
1h 23m
Jul 2024
Why Your Relationship Checklist is Getting in Your Way & How to Stop Questioning if You are With the Right Person
What do you look for in a partner? What do you think makes a relationship interesting? Today, let's talk about the disparity between what people say they want in a partner — traits like kindness, empathy, and thoughtfulness — and what they often find themselves attracted to, whic ... Show More
27m 44s
Jul 2025
If You're Tired of Wasting Time on the Wrong People — THESE 9 Dating Questions Will Save You Years of Heartbreak!
Today, Jay reframes how relationships are built—not through surface-level attraction or blind chemistry, but through clarity, communication, and intentionality. He presents nine transformative questions that often go unasked in modern dating, not because they’re unimportant, but ... Show More
34m 7s