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Sep 14
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Dating is a Marathon, Not a Sprint ft. B...

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
About this episode

Brett Chody is on the pod today! Brett is a creator, runner, Swiftie, and popcorn expert. Her account is @brettsbites on Instagram and she has grown an amazing and loyal following over the years. Brett and I talk about how she got into running, meeting her boyfriend on a dating app, rules she’s broken, friendship changing in your 20s, wedding guest etiquette, and so much more. 


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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Gen Z Lingo

00:20 Romantic Gestures and Dating Stories

06:18 Taylor Swift and Relationship Goals

23:26 Journey into Running

25:13 Music and Motivation for Running

27:56 Dating Stories and Advice


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