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Jul 9
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304: Why Finding Love Starts With Redefi...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

In today’s episode, Matthew is joined by bestselling author Sahil Bloom, whose book The Five Types of Wealth challenges everything we think we know about success. Together they dive into the tension between chasing money and cultivating a deeply fulfilling life—especially in the age of comparison and social media.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still feel behind or empty, this conversation is a must-listen.

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Topics Covered:

  • The 5 types of wealth: time, health, relationships, purpose, and money

  • Why money is only valuable as a tool—not a destination

  • The myth of “falling” in love vs. growing in love

  • Why you feel behind in life (and how to reframe it)

  • Navigating loneliness and starting over at any age

  • The power of environment to shape your reality

  • When to let go of old friendships and toxic safety habits

  • How to shift from burnout to balance without losing your ambition

  • Why anything above zero compounds

  • Small habits that build deep relationships

  • How to trust again after betrayal or rejection

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