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Sep 12
1h 25m

Be a Man with a Plan

Kim Anami
About this episode

“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.”

Is music to a woman’s ears. 

And her vagina.

IT NEVER GETS OLD. 

Be a man with a plan.  Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold. 


You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. This applies to early stages all the way through 30 years of marriage. Be the man so that she doesn’t have to be. 

I’m speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Jim in today’s episode: 

  • Orgasm without ejaculation and sexual mastery earns your woman’s respect
  • One of the most fantastic examples of a man with a plan. Ever. 
  • Men and purpose. Why you need it and how it transforms your masculine self. 
  • Turning around a polarity dynamic and seizing the lead as the masculine 
  • Self-love is the biggest block you can clear to quantum leap your growth

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  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Organically grown cock lengthening and strengthening exercises 
  • How to lead and occupy your uber masculine and alpha self.
  • And much more. 

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