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Sep 2025
10m 48s

3 Low-Value Behaviors That Quietly Kill ...

THE ART OF CHARM
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Ever wonder why people don’t take you seriously—even when you’re smart and hardworking? In this episode, AJ and Johnny reveal the three most common low value signals that quietly repel respect: being supplicative (begging for approval), combative (using force or intimidation), and competitive (constantly one-upping). Backed by research from UCLA, Harvard, an ... Show More
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