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Sep 4
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Growing Beyond Conflict: The Power of Po...

Roger Walsh and John Dupuy
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Ep. 198 (Part 2 of 3) | Polarity management pioneer and author Barry Johnson and adult development expert Beena Sharma are masterful teachers on the subject of polarities and what polarity thinking can bring to the world, benefitting our well-being at every level. Together they explain what polarities are, why they matter, how to apply and leverage them, and the essence of polarity wisdom: pursuing the upsides of opposite poles. Barry is careful to explain that although either/or thinking is the root of our troubles, both/and thinking by itself isn’t the answer either. Integrating either/or with both/and thinking and recognizing the interdependence of all things is the road to transformation and, Beena adds, the engine of human development, of human maturity.

Barry explains the profound spiritual understanding foundational to polarity wisdom and Beena details how polarities shift according to our developmental stage. Each of the polarities discussed—justice/mercy, claiming power/sharing power, being/doing, to name a few—illuminates its sphere, whether it relates to democracy, social justice, or spiritual practice. Barry and Beena are passionate about the promise of polarity thinking and their excitement is contagious in this fast-paced, delightfully lucid dialogue, jam-packed with information that is practical, inspiring, and potentially life changing. Recorded May 22, 2025.

“Love is a natural byproduct of seeing completely.”

Topics & Time Stamps – Part 2

  • Looking at the pole preferences that show up at each stage of development (00:37) 
  • The integrative stage of development doesn’t reject either/or thinking or both/and thinking (04:42)
  • Embracing polarities’ upsides elevates you; you come to a higher place (08:05)
  • Tyranny and democracy: how do you both provide direction and encourage participation? (08:54)
  • The spiritual polarity of doing and being and Martin Buber’s I and thou (14:08)
  • How polarities nest and stack: Beena leads a nesting and upleveling exercise (18:10)
  • Relating polarity thinking to quantum physics & the richness of the subject of universal interdependence (22:32)
  • How do we respond to opposition at different developmental stages? (24:33)
  • Jack Gibb’s trust theory: love is a natural byproduct of seeing completely (28:24)
  • Seeing life and death as two poles and the violence in nature (29:28)
  • Enhancing our capacity to love: individuals, enemies, countries; universal interdependence is a manifestation of divine love (32:44)
  • Taking radical responsibility for our own incapacity to see (36:42)
  • Love as a natural response to seeing fully and defenselessly (38:23)
  • Barry’s profound realization about heaven, hell, and universal love (40:14)

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