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Sep 1
9 m

I ONLY WANT WHAT WANTS ME

Mafe Anzures
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What if you stopped chasing things that don’t align with you and started choosing only what chooses you back? In this episode of I Missed Me, we dive into the powerful mantra “I only want what wants me,” and how it can transform the way you approach relationships, opportunities, and even your own self-worth.

This conversation is a reminder that alignment isn’t about giving up—it’s about protecting your energy, honoring your value, and creating space for the right people and opportunities to meet you halfway. If you’ve ever felt tired of chasing or questioning your worth, what’s truly meant for you will never require you to lose yourself to get it.

With love, Mafe

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