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Aug 24
39m 28s

STOP Searching For Your Purpose and Do T...

ERIKA DE PELLEGRIN
About this episode

If you've ever felt lost, stuck, or like you're falling behind because you haven’t “found your purpose,” this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation with Rhea Jacobs, we unpack the real truth about purpose — and why the pressure to find it might be what’s holding you back.


👉 You’ll discover:

  • Why your purpose doesn’t need to be one big thing
  • A practical exercise to gain clarity
  • The 4 personality types that shape your purpose
  • How purpose evolves as you do
  • Insights from ancient wisdom and modern science


Whether you’re in a season of uncertainty or looking to realign with what really matters, this episode will shift your mindset and help you move forward with confidence.


🧠 This isn’t your typical “find your why” chat — it’s a deep, real, and refreshing take on purpose.



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TIME STAMPS

(00:00) Introduction

(04:00) Is purpose one thing we need to define?

(08:27) Practical Exercise to find your purpose

(10:10) What if my purpose isn’t something grand for the whole world?

(11:50) 4 personality types that dictates your purpose

(16:50) How do you keep or find your purpose whilst you’re growing / changing

(19:14) What did you do when you identified a purpose you had to part with?

(23:56) What can Ancient Traditions teach us about purpose?

(27:56) What does science have to say about purpose?

(32:05) How do you deal with fear in purpose?

(36:20) One take away for listeners




WHO AM I?

My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!


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