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Aug 22
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Ep. 369 - Overcome the Fear of Being See...

To Be Magnetic™
About this episode

What if your dream life was on the other side of the fear of being “cringe?”

In this expansive Process episode, Jessica sits down with TBM community member Alexandria to explore what it looks like to manifest from alignment when everything familiar falls away. From starting out as a fitness influencer to becoming a retreat host and conscious creator, Alexandria shares how she moved through the fear of being seen, reconnected with her inner child, and followed intuitive pings that led her to quit her job, heal old wounds, and sell out her first retreat—all without a perfect plan in place.

Together, they dive deep into the power of expanders, the role of vision holders, the energetics of desperation, and why honoring your nervous system is the key to your most aligned, magnetic life.

**Trigger warning: Discussion of alcoholism and parental loss at 19:07 through 23:54

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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips 

(with exercises by Jessica Gill) 

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In This Episode We Talk About:

  • How Alexandria discovered TBM through a synchronistic podcast episode
  • The emotional toll of silencing her voice after leaving the fitness influencer world
  • The pivotal moment she received an intuitive ping to quit her job
  • The role of vision holders and the importance of expanders in transformation
  • Healing grief and self-worth wounds through inner child connection
  • Shifting from desperation to trust during career transitions
  • How to know when it's time to take a leap (even without a full safety net)
  • Why rest is a radical act of alignment in hyper-productive culture
  • How personal dreams and micro-manifestations fuel greater magnetism
  • Shedding external validation in favor of soul-aligned expression
  • The year of stripping away inauthenticity to reveal essence
     

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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips 

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.

Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
 – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
 – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
 – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
 – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self

With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.

Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.

 

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