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Aug 15
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Closing the Exposure Gap: Why Comfort Zo...

John R. Miles
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In this pivotal episode of the Reclaiming Wellness series, John R. Miles tackles the hidden cost of safetyism — the cultural obsession with eliminating risk — and how it’s creating what he calls the “Exposure Gap.” Drawing on insights from Dr. Wolfgang Linden’s work on exposure therapy, Jonathan Haidt’s research on safetyism, and Dr. Kevin Tracey’s groundbreaking vagus nerve science, John explains why avoiding discomfort weakens our nervous system and resilience over time. You’ll learn why controlled exposure to manageable stress is crucial for developing emotional and physical resilience. With real-world examples, a practical four-step “Bridge Crossing Plan,” and actionable strategies, this episode will show you how to unlock courage, reclaim adaptability, and close your own exposure gap.

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Drawing on personal stories, expert interviews, and real-world insights, John explores the science behind blocked absorption—and invites listeners to realign with what their body and mind truly need.

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