Welcome back to Don’t Retire… Graduate! Today’s episode is all about conquering clutter, downsizing with dignity, and organizing your life for the next big transition—whether that’s retirement, a move, or simply refreshing your space for a more purpose-driven future. Joining me in the studio is Tara Donohue Rudo, founder of No More Piles, an organization that has helped countless families and busy professionals in the Baltimore metro area manage life’s transitions with less stress and more organization.
Tara brings more than 23 years of expertise in move management, downsizing, estate clear outs, and general home organizing. In our candid and wide-ranging conversation, Tara and I dig into the emotional and practical challenges of tackling decades of accumulated “stuff,” often spanning several generations—not just our own collections, but those of our parents, adult children, and relatives who have passed on. We talk about why people keep things for so long, how daunting the downsizing process can feel, and why it’s usually better to tackle it early rather than wait for a crisis.
We also discuss some of the surprising treasures Tara and her team have uncovered hidden in old boxes and back drawers, from forgotten life insurance policies and valuable coin collections to heirlooms and important financial documents. Tara shares tips for making family conversations about decluttering easier, explains her methodical approach to breaking the process down into manageable steps, and emphasizes the importance of community and philanthropy in letting go.
One thing I really appreciated was how Tara approaches downsizing proactively—not just as something you do in retirement, but as a habit worth practicing at every stage of life. She’s full of actionable advice, from digitizing old photos and creating organized shopping lists to setting up systems for periodic purging, getting the whole family involved, and making certain your “secret stuff” is handled with care. There’s also a wealth of resources and professional networks for people seeking help wherever they live.
If you or your family are facing a big transition or you simply want to lighten your load, this episode packs a powerful punch with both wisdom and tangible steps to make the journey smoother.
5 Key Takeaways:
- Start Early, Start Small: Don’t wait for a crisis to begin decluttering and downsizing. Tackle one room or even one pile at a time, and if you’ve lived in a home for decades, plan for at least a month per decade to manage the process without unnecessary stress.
- Professional Organizers as Allies: Hiring a reputable, experienced organizer (often through the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals) gives you access to trusted resources, emotional support, and systems for uncovering and preserving valuables as well as clearing out everything else effectively.
- Treasures Among the Chaos: It’s common for teams like Tara’s to discover valuable items such as forgotten life insurance policies, coins, stock certificates, or important documents—sometimes totaling tens of thousands of dollars or more. Properly sorting and investigating paperwork can truly pay off.
- Involve the Family and Give Back: Downsizing isn’t just about “stuff”—it’s also a chance to talk about memories, philanthropy, and family storytelling. Regular purges, creating donation bins, and thoughtfully redistributing goods keeps giving at the center of the process.
- The Power of Three Friends: For peace of mind, identify three trusted people: one who knows your finances, one who knows your passwords, and one who knows about any “secret stuff.” This trio can help ensure your legacy and information are handled as you wish in any emergency.
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