We're revisiting agreements, but this time with ourselves, not others. We're going to be talking about agreements, self agreements, how they differ from boundaries, and ways to generate self agreements so that you can start exploring what you expect from yourself in relationships versus what you expect from others. Dedeker's ConstitutionFor subscribers only: ... Show More
Mar 10
570 - Play as Resistance: featuring Gary Ware from Breakthrough Play and Normalizing Non-Monogamy
This week we're featuring an episode from our friends Emma and Fin at Normalizing Non-Monogamy with guests Gary Ware and our own Jase Lindgren! Emma, Fin, Gary, and Jase talk about play during this interview, how important it is for our health and wellbeing, and how to frame play ... Show More
1h 18m
Mar 3
569 - Why is Everyone So Tired of Dating?
Today we're tackling a concept that's on a lot of people's minds lately: burnout. Specifically, we'll be discussing dating burnout and fatigue, which seem to be rife on social media, dating apps, articles, what have you. We'll be diving into what the data says about the increase ... Show More
1h 12m
Aug 2025
5 Habits That Will Ruin Your Relationship
In this episode, Jillian shares five powerful relationship boundaries you should never cross if you want your connection to last. From why saying “I need space” can cause unintended harm, to how silent treatment erodes trust, she breaks down the hidden damage these behaviors can ... Show More
31m 11s
Apr 2025
The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns
We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you' ... Show More
49m 9s
Jul 2025
From The Heart: A Personal Update About How We're Growing, Together
I have something personal to share.
This podcast — this weekly connection with you — is one of my favorite parts of my work. It's not even fair to call it work. If I won the lottery and never had to work for money again, I'd still be here with you, every week. (Recording from my ... Show More
8m 51s
Feb 2025
How To Master Self-Awareness & Growth in Relationships with Yung Pueblo
Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal ... Show More
1h 12m