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Aug 4
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How You're Sabotaging Your Own Masculine...

Connor Beaton
About this episode

I dive into the modern traps that disconnect men from their masculine core, like the "nice guy" culture and procrastination, which drain your inner fire. I share practical steps to rebuild momentum through small, daily habits, helping you reclaim your strength and direction without relying on motivation.

Join me as I explore how to balance empathy with assertiveness and take action toward your goals.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Introduction: Feeling Disconnected

(01:04) - The Nice Guy Trap

(02:46) - Conflict Avoidance and Inner Fire

(03:46) - The Procrastination Paradox

(06:41) - Building Momentum

(07:47) - Daily Habits for Masculine Energy

(09:31) - Finding the Middle Ground

(10:48) - Call to Action

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