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Aug 1
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Prove To Yourself That You Are Worthy of...

Lewis Howes
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My life-changing annual event, The Summit of Greatness, is happening September 12 & 13, 2025. Get your ticket today!

The world needs more authentic love, yet most people sabotage their relationships before they even begin - relationship coach and author Jillian Turecki reveals why in this raw conversation about modern dating disasters. She shares her own devastating experience in an abusive relationship over 20 years ago, explaining how low self-worth drives people to choose partners who take from them rather than give to them. Through vulnerable stories about testing boundaries, surviving emotional unavailability, and learning to choose partners over projects, Jillian delivers hard truths about why love alone never sustains relationships. Anyone struggling with relationship patterns, dating anxiety, or the exhausting cycle of trying to fix broken people needs to hear these insights about building genuine partnerships based on mutual investment and emotional health.

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In this episode you will learn:

  • Why someone who refuses to invest time and energy in getting to know you will never be relationship material
  • How to spot the difference between healthy relationship challenges and toxic patterns that drain your energy
  • The three relationship killers that destroy even the strongest connections and how to avoid them
  • Why waiting longer before becoming sexually intimate creates better long-term partnership outcomes
  • How to stop choosing broken people to fix and start attracting partners ready to do the work

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