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Jul 2025
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Dr. Sunita Sah: How to Say No at Work

FRANKLINCOVEY
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How many times have we been juggling a thousand projects, and responsibilities just keep coming? And we say yes to everything! Today's guest, Dr. Sunita Sah, has spent her career studying the power of "no." Dr. Sah is a Professor at Cornell University's Graduate School of Management and author of Defy: The Power of No in a World that Demands Yes.   In today’ ... Show More
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