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May 2025
27m 5s

you need to stop hating yourself

the zurkie show
About this episode

having standards for excellence and being hard on yourself are two different things, but oftentimes we just lump them together.

the greats have standards, but they don't beat themselves up more than they have to.

if you want to work with yourself to achieve anything in life, you must be fair. you must be able to look into your habits and lifestyle and truly acknowledge if you're doing enough.

sending you all lot's of love and peaaaaaaaace!https://stan.store/thezurkieshow⁠

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