Most people dread small talk. But in this episode of Social Intelligence, AJ and Johnny explain why it’s not about the weather, jobs, or generic questions—it’s about emotional connection. Discover the science of “emotional bids,” a concept from Dr. John Gottman that unlocks deeper conversations and lasting influence.
AJ shares a real story of using this ski ... Show More
Jul 28
How to Defuse Any Situation | Gary Noesner
Former FBI crisis negotiator Gary Noesner joins AJ and Johnny to unpack what it means to lead—and survive—under pressure. With over 30 years of field experience in prison riots, armed standoffs, and emotionally charged confrontations, Gary reveals what separates panic from poise ... Show More
58m 39s
Sep 2024
714. The Secret To Connecting With Anyone and Getting What You Want
In this episode, Lindsey sits down with Charles Duhigg, New York Times bestselling author of The Power of Habit, Smarter Faster Better, and his newest book, Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection. Communication takes center stage as Charles breaks dow ... Show More
1h 24m
Jun 21
Rich Girl Summer: Social Edition — Fun, Low-Cost Ways to Connect Without Going Broke
When did having fun start feeling so damn expensive? From $80 dinners to group trips that quietly blow your budget, summer socializing can leave your wallet crying in the corner. But guess what? You don’t need to overspend to feel connected, joyful, or rich in your relationships. ... Show More
28m 24s
Sep 2024
How to MASTER the Art of Networking
Are you struggling to build meaningful connections that elevate your personal and professional life? Brendon Burchard, the world’s top high performance coach, shares the secrets to mastering the art of networking and creating powerful, lasting relationships. In this episode, you’ ... Show More
23m 25s
Jul 29
Can You Trust Him? How to Decode His Body Language, Lies & True Intentions | Vanessa Van Edwards (Fan Fav)
Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Vanessa Van Edwards—a behavioral investigator, bestselling author, and all-around expert in the science of people—for an unfiltered, practical, and refreshingly relatable conversation. Vanessa dives into why being smart and prepared isn’t always enough ... Show More
1h 36m
Oct 2024
202. Why Social Skills Are the Key to Career Acceleration
In today’s episode, we’re diving into the often-overlooked factor that directly impacts your career success—social skills. If you’ve ever felt overlooked, undervalued, or underpaid in your job, despite working hard and delivering results, this episode will show you how improving ... Show More
19m 19s
Feb 2025
Charisma Teacher: Psychology Of Why People Don't Like You! People Are Attracted To These Traits! The Secret To Being Instantly Likeable!
They say you either have charisma or you don’t, but Charlie Houpert proves charisma can be built, and reveals the secret code to mastering it for success in love, work, and friendship
Charlie Houpert is the co-founder of the confidence-building online platform, ‘Charisma on Com ... Show More
2h 14m