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Dec 2024
15m 11s

How to Never Struggle with Small Talk

Civility Media
About this episode

Small talk can be so awkward.

You’re trying to fill the silence, but the conversation just isn’t clicking. What do you do?

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to make small talk feel natural, engaging, and even enjoyable. You’ll learn how to ask better questions, keep the conversation flowing, and avoid the awkward silence trap.

These tips will help you turn any small talk moment—whether at a party, in line at the grocery store, or before a meeting—into a real connection.

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