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Jul 24
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Empowering Women to Master Money: A Conv...

Eric Brotman
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Welcome back to Don’t Retire… Graduate! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the intersection of financial empowerment, psychology, and redefining money conversations—especially for women. Joining me is Chelsea Williams, also known as the Money Whisperer, and the host of the Always and Never about the Money podcast. With nearly a decade of entrepreneurial experience, Chelsea has helped countless business owners and individuals find financial clarity, dispel myths, and uncover the empowering stories that money can tell. Chelsea and I explored how it’s “always and never about the money”—challenging the black-and-white thinking that often holds us back from understanding our true relationship with finances. From Chelsea’s journey of necessity as a young single mom, to her emergence as a beloved financial educator and crusader for women’s financial literacy, we covered the unique challenges women face in the financial world and why their role in wealth-building is only growing stronger. We looked at money not as a source of stress or conflict, but as a mirror that reflects deeper life patterns—be it in setting boundaries with loved ones, or breaking generational cycles of financial exclusion. Our conversation spanned the practical application of personal and business budgets (or, as Chelsea and I agree to call it—the “B word”), the importance of emergency funds, and how to “pay yourself first” with systems like Profit First. We also went deep into financial planning as both an art and a science, the importance of regular course adjustments, and the need to own your financial understanding rather than abdicate responsibility to others. 5 Key Takeaways:
  1. Money Is a Mirror, Not a Monster: Chelsea drives home that financial problems often reflect deeper issues like boundaries, communication, or beliefs—money simply brings these patterns to the surface.
  2. Women Are Reshaping Financial Power: Despite only recently entering the world of independent finance (about 1% of the time financial institutions have existed!), women now control a growing share of wealth and are learning to own their money narratives.
  3. Pay Yourself First—Every Time: Whether personally or in business, prioritizing savings before spending allows you to break the common “net zero” habit and set yourself up for long-term success—even if you’re only saving “50 cents at a time.”
  4. The “B Word” Isn’t About Restriction: Creating a budget—whether for a business or household—is about establishing boundaries and protecting your future self, not about deprivation. Think of it as building freedom within guardrails you create for yourself.
  5. Financial Planning Is an Ongoing Art: No plan can predict the future perfectly—what matters is having a clear “shot to call,” monitoring and adjusting regularly (even quarterly check-ins can make a big difference), and being comfortable with pivoting as life happens.

Join us in this energetic and insightful episode as Chelsea and I challenge old-school money thinking, provide real-world tools for financial mastery, and inspire everyone—especially women—to step confidently into their financial power. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with anyone ready to reimagine their financial future! [embed]https://youtu.be/j1eM9cyc64s[/embed] About Chelsea Williams Bio: With over a decade of working with entrepreneurs and their money, Chelsea has come to understand that it's always and never about money. So she's on a mission to splash some color around this very black-and-white topic. School never taught us about money, yet we use it every day. Financial clarity can be the thing that shatters glass ceilings. With over a decade of bookkeeping for lawyers experience, she has the knowledge to not just get your financial house in order, but set it up for long-term sustainability at a healthy profit. Accounting for law...
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