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Jul 2025
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Cruising with Leo Herrera - 55

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Welcome back, Booty Gang, to another eye-opening episode of BUTT HONESTLY

This week, the boys are lubed up and locked in with a butt dial from a listener who signs off as Confused in Connecticut—he’s in his first monogamous relationship and wondering if he's doing it right... or if he is the red flag. Dr. Carlton and Dangilo give their unfiltered thoughts, therapy-adjacent advice, and probably make it worse (in the best way).

The guys welcome a very special guest: Leo Herrera—filmmaker, activist, queer historian, and author of POST and (analong) Cruising. Get ready for a raw, sexy, and deeply intellectual kiki about preserving queer culture, pleasure activism, and why the ghosts of our queer ancestors are probably rolling their eyes at your text game.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a new crop of Hit It and Quit It questions that'll leave you clutching your pearls and your prep. Topics this week include everything from topping fatigue to anal ambition and one listener who just wants to know if his dick has too much charisma.

The boys wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week—because nothing says romance like overanalyzing your emotional availability between butt stuff convos. 💞

So sit back and press play—because this episode is giving you education, entertainment, and a little bit of existential thirst. 🧠🍆💦


https://www.amazon.com/Analog-Cruising-Manual-Leo-Herrera/dp/B0DJGPQYLC



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