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Jul 21
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Ep. 110: Why Women Don't Ask (And What I...

Valerie Jones
About this episode

We've been told our whole lives not to want too much, need too much, or ask for more. 

So we don't. We shrink, we wait, and we hope someone notices and gives it to us anyway. 

And then we wonder why we're so tired, resentful, and invisible. 

This episode is your wake-up call. 

I'm pulling back the curtain on the hardest thing I've done lately: Asking for what I want, for what I deserve. I share the origin story of my book, The Selfish Year - the miserable woman I used to be, and the moment I stopped waiting for someone to save me. 

You'll hear: 

  • Why asking feels so wrong, and why that's a lie. 
  • How we betray ourselves when we don't ask. 
  • What selfish actually means for women who are ready to save themselves. 
  • Why The Selfish Year isn't just a book...it's a rebellion. 

If you've ever wanted more, but felt guilty for even saying it, this is for you. 

And yes, I'm asking too: Please pre-order The Selfish Year! 

Pre-order here and get The Selfish Woman Starter Kit as a big thank you from moi. 

 

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