Forrest and Dr. Rick discuss what's really wrong with the self-help industry, going beyond the obvious pseudoscience and snake oil to examine deeper structural issues. They explore the industry's mixed-bag focus on individual responsibility, the risks of turning healing into a never-ending project, performative personal growth, narcissism, social media and c ... Show More
Oct 19
How to Fix Insomnia: CBT-I with Dr. Ashley Mason
Forrest is joined by Dr. Ashley Mason, a clinical psychologist and sleep researcher at UCSF, to discuss Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for insomnia (CBT-I). They talk about what separates insomnia from a few rough nights, why people with insomnia sleep (on average) only a little le ... Show More
1h 16m
Oct 12
How to Accept the Parts of Yourself You Don't Like
In this second episode on self-acceptance, Forrest and Dr. Rick focus on how to accept the parts of ourselves we don’t like. They explain why "just love yourself more" rarely works, walk through a four-step process, and talk about why acceptance gets easier when you can set bound ... Show More
1h 7m
Oct 5
Self-Acceptance: How to Accept Yourself Without Giving Up on Change
Self-acceptance gets recommended constantly, but are we really supposed to accept the parts of ourselves we don't like? Won’t that stop us from changing? Dr. Rick and Forrest discuss what self-acceptance is, what it isn't, and why it’s the starting point for real change. They sha ... Show More
1 h
Dec 2024
Self-Care Might Be Turning You Into a Narcissist
Self-care has become the go-to remedy for life’s chaos—but is it truly the path to well-being, or has it been hijacked into a cycle of indulgence and self-obsession? In this episode, I explore the billion-dollar self-care industry, its surprising history, and the fine line betwee ... Show More
13m 24s
Feb 2025
Snake Oil or Self-Help?, Minimalism’s Real Value, and Atheists Who Go to Church
Self-help is supposed to, you know, help. But what if, sometimes, it actually makes things worse? In this episode, we take a hard look at the self-improvement industry that promises transformation but often sells little more than feel-good illusions. From outdated advice that pre ... Show More
52m 8s
Oct 2021
When Self Care Becomes Selfish and Victimhood Becomes Paradigm
Let's talk about self-care, pleasing others, personal responsibilities, feeling victimized and true healing. All Things Koze Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/allthingskoze/ Koze Flow Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kozeflow/ Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.co ... Show More
27m 31s
Jul 2025
312. Can self improvement go too far?
Does chasing your "best self" ever feel like an endless race? You're constantly striving, optimizing your routines, and learning new skills, yet sometimes a quiet exhaustion creeps in, or you wonder if you're truly any happier. It's as if the very pursuit of perfection leaves you ... Show More
49m 22s
Nov 2024
is trendy self care actually toxic? ep.69
Is self-care actually helping us, or are we falling for trends that might be doing more harm than good? This is a question I’ve found myself asking repeatedly, especially as wellness practices flood our feeds with promises of healing and transformation. On this week’s episode, I ... Show More
38m 26s
Jan 2025
Why Being Yourself Is Ruining Your Life
"Just be yourself." It’s the feel-good mantra printed on mugs, sprinkled across Instagram captions, and echoed in graduation speeches. But is it actually good advice—or just a comforting illusion? In this episode, I unpack the hidden dangers of this celebrated cliché and why stri ... Show More
13m 31s