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Jul 18
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watch this when you're in a slump

Tam Kaur
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<p><strong>feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your future self, and turn quiet seasons into your biggest growth moments. whether you’re going through a rough patch or just feeling off, this is your sign to reset, reflect, and step into your comeback era.</p>


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<p><strong>♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:</strong><br>

00:00 – Overcoming the Slump Phase<br>

01:14 – Fact 1: Emotions Are Not Reality<br>

03:19 – Fact 2: It's Just a Phase<br>

05:27 – Fact 3: Stop Identifying with the Slump<br>

06:59 – Fact 4: One Decision Away<br>

08:32 – Fact 5: Future Self Knows Best<br>

10:32 – Fact 6: Resisting the Next Version of You<br>

12:28 – Fact 7: You Are Resilient<br>

13:28 – Final Motivation</p>


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