logo
episode-header-image
Yesterday
22m 23s

Resentment In Marriage And Feeling Stuck

NATALIE BACON
About this episode

Have you ever felt like you’ve spent years supporting your husband, raising kids, running the home—and now that there’s finally space for you—you feel stuck?

 

In this episode, I’m answering a caller who shared that her husband has had huge career success (bonuses, boards, recognition), while she’s been the backbone of the family. Now that her kids are older, she’s craving more for herself—but she doesn’t feel like she has the power to make the big moves she wants to make.

 

Cue: resentment.

 

If you’ve ever felt envy, bitterness, or powerlessness in your marriage—even though you love your husband deeply—this episode is for you.

 

I dive into:

  • Why resentment isn’t about him—it’s about what you’re making it mean
  • What to do when you feel stuck in your role
  • How to reclaim your power, purpose, and agency without waiting for permission
  • The truth about money, motherhood, and making decisions as a team
  • What resentment is really trying to tell you (and how to use it to evolve)

 

This is your guide to stop minimizing your role, stop giving your power away, and start leading your life with intention. You are not stuck—you’re just being called into your next chapter.

 

Free Private Podcast: How To Lighten Up Motherhood

Mom On Purpose Membership

Private Coaching

Instagram @ mom.onpurpose

Weekly Newsletter

Show notes:  momonpurpose.com/356

Podcast Hotline: 8-333-ASKNAT (833-327-5628)

Up next
Jul 9
Low-Grade Annoyances In Marriage
Feel like you’re constantly annoyed with your husband over the small stuff? In this episode, I’m talking about low-grade annoyances in marriage—what causes them, why they matter more than you think, and how to shift from frustration to connection without nagging or trying to chan ... Show More
27m 4s
Jul 2
High Achieving Moms + Slow Motherhood
Can you be a high-achieving mom and embrace slow, present motherhood? Or do you have to choose? I’m diving deep into the tension many of us feel—the push to do more, achieve more, and grow… alongside the desire to slow down, soak in the little moments, and actually enjoy motherho ... Show More
26m 51s
Jun 25
Feel Like Roommates With Your Spouse? Here’s What To Do
If you’re going through the motions with your husband—handling logistics, raising kids, getting through the day—but feeling emotionally disconnected, this episode will hit home. So many high-achieving moms find themselves stuck in a “roommate” dynamic in marriage. You’re not figh ... Show More
26m 38s
Recommended Episodes
Feb 2025
Are Stay-at-Home Moms Giving Up? Are Working Moms Selfish? Let’s Talk w/ Neha Ruch
In today’s episode I am joined by Neha Ruch, author of The Power Pause: How to Plan a Career Break after Kids and Come Back Stronger Than Ever, to unpack the long-standing tension between stay-at-home and working moms. Together, we explore the myths, societal pressures, and hidde ... Show More
39m 6s
Sep 2024
Mothering With An Eternal Perspective
One of the things that freed me up the most in my motherhood journey was realizing that I don't always have to LIKE every single part of being a mom. I don’t have to like the 3 am wake up calls and poop accidents and toddler attitudes in order to do this job joyfully. If nobo ... Show More
20m 14s
Jul 2024
Working Mom Struggles
The (working mom) struggle is real! This week on the Mama Work It podcast, I’m talking all things working mom struggles, but I’m not stopping there. We’ll dive deep into the top five working mom struggles I’ve personally experienced, along with hundreds of working mom clients and ... Show More
29m 39s
Feb 2025
Why Your To-Do List Is Hurting Your Parenting
Do you ever feel like there’s just not enough time for connection? Between work, household tasks, and never-ending to-do lists, it’s easy to let quality time with our kids slip to the bottom of our priorities. But what if I told you that focusing on connection first actually make ... Show More
13m 14s
Sep 2024
2329: Why I Needed Two Kids ASAP by Shawna Scafe of Simple On Purpose on Mom Life & Raising Children
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.Episode 2329:Shawna Scafe shares the roller-coaster of emotions and lessons learned after having two children back-to-back. From rea ... Show More
10m 4s
Mar 2025
Co-Regulation Strategies for Emotional Outbursts
Are you tired of power struggles and tantrums turning your home into a battleground? Do you long for a more peaceful and connected relationship with your child? If you're like many parents, you've probably wondered how to teach your child to manage their big feelings with ... Show More
11m 42s
Aug 2024
How to Raise Kids Who Follow Through
Do you want your kids to do what they say they're going to do? And without nagging? I share a personal story in this episode about the need as parents and caregivers to fuel the inner spark for kids to have their own motivation to do what they say they are going to do. Motiva ... Show More
11m 49s
Jun 2022
012 - MOTHERHOOD MONDAY - How to Talk to Your Kids about Hard Things While Protecting Your Family’s Peace
It can feel really hard to explain to our kids what’s going on in the world these days. With what’s happened in Texas and other events in the news recently, we can find ourselves caught between wanting our children to be aware of what’s going on in the world around them, but at t ... Show More
25m 37s
Jun 25
Taking Risks and Implementing Change as a Working Mom with Charlotte Friborg
If you feel stuck in your working mom life right now, and making a change or taking a risk is the last thing you believe you could ever do in the season you’re in, listen to the Mama Work It podcast this week. In this empowering episode, guest Charlotte Friborg—a two-time bestsel ... Show More
31m 47s
Jan 2025
Can We Raise Good Kids Without Punishing Them?
If you've lost your cool with your kids and fallen into yelling, threats, timeouts, or other punishments, you’re not alone. This week, Dr. Becky explores the complex topic of punishment in parenting, and addresses the skepticism surrounding the idea of raising well-behaved childr ... Show More
22m 3s