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Jul 15
51m 58s

The DFK Story I Haven’t Told — Until Now

DR. BECKY KENNEDY
About this episode

In this powerful and intimate episode, Dr. Becky shares the never-before-told story behind the original Deeply Feeling Kid (DFK) - her daughter. For the first time, she opens up about what it was really like parenting a child with big emotions: the moments of connection, the moments of struggle, and the internal battles no one else could see.

With raw honesty and deep reflection, Dr. Becky explores how this personal journey challenged her, changed her, and ultimately led to the creation of one of her most impactful parenting programs.

If you’ve ever felt unsure how to show up for your DFK - you’re not alone. This episode is for you.

If your kid melts down quickly, struggles to calm, and avoids talking about feelings, you might be raising a Deeply Feeling Kid. And summer’s lack of structure and sensory overload can push everyone to the edge. Join Dr. Becky’s live DFK workshop at 12pm or 8pm EDT on Wednesday, July 16 (RSVP here). ****Can’t attend live? We’ve got you - the workshop will be recorded and available in the Good Inside member library soon.

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