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Jul 2025
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Is He Boyfriend Material? with Harry Jow...

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Harry Jowsey is here and he's not holding back! We have the reality TV star and podcaster join us for a wild conversation about everything from having threesomes with friends (does it make it awkward afterward?) to what he's looking for in a partner (or is he not looking at all?) to why he's faked orgasms before (yes guys do it, too). He defends his fuckboy reputation and offers advice to the ladies for how not to get love bombed, and we find out what he actually knows about women's bodies, from what we like in bed to what an IUD is for. And then we break down two juicy listener emails and decide whether the guys in question are boyfriend material. Before Harry joins us, we're offering advice for a tough situation submitted from a listener – her partner made plans to propose (still hasn't) and she's struggling with staying in the relationship. Enjoy! 

Follow Harry on Instagram at @harryjowsey and listen to his podcast Boyfriend Material. 

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