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Jul 8
44m 58s

The Professional Man’s Paradox: Why You ...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Isn’t it frustrating to achieve career success yet struggle with women? Dating coach Connell Barrett calls this the “Professional Man’s Dating Paradox.” Simply put, the communication skills that help you excel at work can actually hurt your love life. Renowned matchmaker Lisa Goodman, of Selective Search, is here to help. Goodman reveals why your career strengths can be dating weaknesses—and shares proven strategies to turn boardroom skills into romantic confidence. Get ready to succeed not just at work, but in dating too!

You’re About to Learn:

07:33: Why You Should Pick Up the Phone Instead of Texting

10:31: The Right Way to Talk to Women on First Dates

21:31: How to Tell if Your Date is Going Well (It’s All in Her Eyes)

34:00: The Truth About First Kisses (When and How to Go for It)

40:10: Why Women Want You to Approach Them (Straight from a Female Expert)


LEARN MORE ABOUT LISA GOODMAN AND SELECTIVE SEARCH MATCHMAKING:
http://www.selectivesearch.com

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com

GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ‘DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T’:
Email Connell: Connell@datingtransformation.com
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