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TRAUMA BONDED… he played us both

Alexandra Centomo
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This week, we sit down with Meg — a nurse practitioner and, as it turns out, someone who was being lied to by the same man as one of us. What started as two women unknowingly dating the same guy turned into a chaotic unraveling of manipulation, emotional abuse, and a whole web of deception. In this episode, we talk about how we pieced the truth together, what he was saying to each of us behind the other’s back, how we finally compared notes, and why this story is bigger than just one toxic man.
From love bombing to gaslighting, public Instagram posts to private betrayals — this is about women who found the truth because they chose to talk to each other. This episode is messy, vulnerable, validating, and proof that when women share their stories, everything changes.



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