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Jul 2025
30m 34s

204. Pressure Creates Diamonds (A Spirit...

Alissa Boyer
About this episode

In this episode, Alissa shares her current life season as a mom of two, author, and business owner, and how this pressure has illuminated areas for healing and self-evolution. Through powerful reflections and raw honesty, Alissa invites highly sensitive people (HSPs) to view pressure not as punishment, but as a spiritual opportunity to become the next version of themselves.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why seasons of pressure and overwhelm are actually signs of soul-level growth
  • How to surrender to discomfort instead of resisting it
  • The connection between spiritual refinement and personal expansion
  • How old wounds and triggers resurface as invitations to heal

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