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Jul 3
23m 48s

You Don’t Need to Be Jealous — You Just ...

Parmis Najmi
About this episode

Feeling stuck in a comparison spiral? In this episode we unpack jealousy, envy, and social‑media comparison and show you how to turn that anxious scroll into real‑world momentum. You’ll learn why jealousy flares up when your goals, purpose, and productivity are on pause, and how tiny, consistent actions rebuild confidence, self‑worth, and mental health faster than any mute button ever could.

We’ll cover:
• The hidden link between idle time and self‑neglect
• How to spot “comparisonitis” before it wrecks your mindset
• Turning other people’s wins into a free success blueprint
• A 60‑second gut‑check that converts jealousy into motivation
• Practical micro‑habits for discipline, focus, and personal growth

Whether you’re an entrepreneur, content creator, or simply tired of feeling behind, this conversation will help you switch from scrolling to showing up. Hit play to reclaim your energy, boost your productivity, and finally do the work that puts jealousy back in its place.

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