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Jun 30
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Ep. 296 - The readiness myth that’s cost...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

"I'm not ready yet." These four words are keeping you stuck in preparation mode while your dreams collect dust. In this powerful episode, Dorothy exposes the readiness myth that convinces you to wait for some magical moment when you'll feel prepared enough to go after what you want. Spoiler alert: that moment never comes. Discover why "begin before you believe" is the secret to quantum leaps and get the Begin Before You Believe Challenge that will prove you can start before you feel ready. If you've been waiting to feel qualified, confident, or prepared enough to make your move, this episode will show you why starting scared is exactly what successful people do.

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