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Jun 27
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1175: Text Fight Turns You Into a Villai...

Jordan Harbinger
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You thought you were the supportive boyfriend. She rewrote you as the villain. When did your love story get such a dark edit? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1175

On This Week's Feedback Friday:

  • You poured your heart into supporting your girlfriend through health crises, work stress, and personal trauma, only to have her suddenly rewrite you as the villain when things ended. What do you do when the person you loved most becomes your harshest unreliable narrator?
  • Your workaholic boss treats days off as "recommendations, not rights" and docks your pay for prioritizing family time, while upper management claims to support work-life balance. Caught between conflicting messages and a shrinking paycheck, what's your next move?
  • Raised by missionary parents who homeschooled you poorly while living off-grid in an RV, you're now watching them age with only a mysterious mountain property as their retirement plan. They own land with mineral rights but panic every time someone wants to buy it. What do you do?
  • Recommendation of the Week: Cold towels with essential oils in the fridge.
  • After three years together, you finally cornered your boyfriend about marriage — only to discover he thinks your relationship is fundamentally broken and doesn't want the future you've been planning. Now you're 30, back at your parents' house, wondering how to rebuild everything. Where do you even start?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.

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