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Jun 24

43m 55s

Anxious attached with an Avoidant - Beco...

bethathealinggirl

About this episode

It’s our 6-year wedding anniversary (!!) and today I brought my husband Craig on the podcast for the realest conversation about love, growth, and the journey from spiraling to secure.

We’re answering your juiciest Qs:

✨ What it’s really like when anxious meets avoidant

✨ Our proposal story (yes, there was a backup plan involving a dog)

✨ How we almost didn’t make it—and what shifted

✨ Craig’s honest take on what helped him finally “grow up” emotionally

✨ Plus: our chaotic traits, icks, inside jokes, and a BIG announcement (no, not a baby)

Whether you’re deep in your healing era or just curious about what it looks like to actually do this work with a partner, this episode is for you. It’s honest. It’s sweet. It’s full of growth and some light roasting (Just the way we like it!)

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