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Nov 2024
37m 34s

The Mirror Effect

Afaf Ouardi
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In this episode, I dive into the defense mechanism of projection—why people project their insecurities, fears, and failures onto others, and how to recognize when it’s happening. Using relatable examples and real-life situations, I unpack how projections impact our social interactions.

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