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Jun 12
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My Journey to Calling In Conscious Partn...

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About this episode

In this transformative episode of The Coachable Podcast, Tori Gordon gets raw and vulnerable about her journey from self-abandonment to sacred partnership. She shares the specific inner work, spiritual devotion, and practical steps that led to manifesting her divine partner Kyle. This isn't your typical manifestation story—it's a deep dive into the psychological, emotional, and energetic preparation required to call in true love. Tori reveals how she stopped outsourcing love and attention to others, built unshakeable self-trust, and learned to stop negotiating with people who couldn't meet her fully. She discusses the importance of grieving past relationships, releasing emotional debris, and becoming an energetic match for the love you desire. This episode is essential listening for anyone seeking sacred partnership, struggling with abandonment wounds, or ready to embody their worth in relationships. 

What You'll Learn

 Foundation Building [0:00 - 15:00] • Why you must become the queen before meeting your king • How to stop outsourcing love and attention to others • The difference between external validation and internal worth • Practical steps to treat yourself like the love of your life 

Self-Trust & Boundaries [15:00 - 30:00] • How to build unshakeable trust with yourself • Why keeping commitments to yourself matters in relationships • How to stop negotiating with people who can't meet you • The art of saying no to "almost" and "potential" 

Healing & Release Work [30:00 - 45:00] • How to heal abandonment wounds without guarantees • The importance of grieving past relationships fully • Releasing emotional and energetic debris from past lovers • Why forgiveness is essential for calling in new love 

Energetic Alignment [45:00 - 60:00] • Why you attract what you ARE, not what you want • How to become an energetic match for divine partnership • The role of spiritual devotion in manifesting love • Preparing your field for sacred partnership 

Host: Tori Gordon Tori Gordon is an Award-Winning Content Creator, Trauma Informed Breathwork Facilitator, and High Performance Coach. As one of TikTok's Top 100 Female Creators, her work reaches nearly 1 million people worldwide. She's been featured on NBC, Fox News, CBS, Yahoo News, and Business Insider. The Coachable Podcast was named Top 5 Podcasts to get you through COVID-19, and Tori was recognized as one of the Top 10 Female Mindset Coaches by Yahoo News in 2020. Connect with Tori • 

Website: [torigordon.com] • Instagram: [@thetorigordon] • TikTok: [@thetorigordon] • YouTube: [Tori Gordon] • Podcast: The Coachable Podcast on all platforms

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