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May 2025
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Stop Proving, Start Being: The Shift Tha...

BLUE WIRE
About this episode

Stop proving and start being! In this transformative episode of the Coachable podcast, I share the profound shift that changed everything in my life—from stepping away from hustle culture and boss babe mentality to embracing softness, feminine embodiment, and true self-discovery. If you’re feeling burnt out, overworked, or stuck in the cycle of proving your worth, this conversation is for you. Join me as I reveal how leaning into vulnerability, surrender, and co-creation unlocked true freedom, deeper intimacy, creativity, and personal liberation. It’s about choosing wholeness over hustle, embracing your authentic self, and redefining success on your terms. 

Together, we’ll explore the balance of masculine and feminine energy, the power of receiving, and how to integrate these polarities for a life of alignment and fulfillment. Packed with practical advice, profound insights, and actionable strategies, this episode is your guide to breaking free from old patterns and reclaiming your joy, purpose, and radiance. 

This is a conversation you need to hear! If you’re ready to shift your mindset, prioritize self-love, and step into true empowerment, hit play now. Don’t miss this chance to transform your life from the inside out! 

#shadowwork #feminineembodimentcoach #masculineenergy #nurturingyourmind #empowermentdefinition 

CHAPTERS: 

00:00 - Intro 

01:23 - Why I'm Making This Episode 

09:58 - Masculine vs Feminine Energy 

14:05 - Women Prioritizing Masculine Energy 

19:57 - Shifting from Masculine to Feminine Energy 

25:26 - Understanding Masculine Energy 

34:24 - Exploring Feminine Energy 

43:18 - The Shadow Feminine Concept 

45:10 - Life's Response to Internal Shifts 

49:20 - Embracing Our Medicine 

52:10 - Working with Tory Privately 

55:10 - Closing Words

 

Resources Mentioned: 

Anywhere Clinic: A mental health resource that has been a game-changer for me. Visit Anywhere Clinic to learn more about virtual psychiatric care, ketamine therapy, and emotional mastery. Visit www.anywhereclinic.com/tori to book your initial consultation. 

If you’re tired of being stuck in indecision and want to start making aligned, confident choices, reach out to me! DM me the word “decide” on Instagram and let’s talk about how we can work together in my high-performance leadership coaching program. 

Connect with Tori: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/thetorigordon 

Personal Website: www.torigordon.com 

 

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