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Jun 2025
1h 8m

Rewiring Shame, Stress & Survival Patter...

Jennifer Wallace & Elisabeth Kristof
About this episode

We often think of trauma healing as a personal journey, a solitary path shaped by diagnosis, insight, and effort. But what if true transformation isn’t cognitive at all? What if the real healing starts in the nervous system, in the body, and in community?

In this powerful close to Season 4 of Trauma Rewired, Elisabeth Kristof and Jennifer Wallace reflect on the deepest insights and recurring themes that shaped this season: from chronic stress and burnout to neurodivergence, from shame and diagnosis to collective trauma, relational wounds, and the overlooked power of rest.

This episode weaves together the threads of what you’ve heard all season and invites you to begin integrating, not just understanding, what healing really means. Elisabeth and Jennifer share personal stories, emerging neuroscience, and lived somatic wisdom to reveal why regulation, emotional expression, and safety are not just tools, but the foundation of post-traumatic growth.

They also share what’s next in Season 5, including a deeper dive into the emotional landscape, exploring feelings like grief, disgust, jealousy, and joy, as well as the science and practices behind post-traumatic growth.

This is not just a season recap. It’s an embodied invitation to pause, reflect, and rewire.

Topics discussed in this episode:

● Why chronic stress affects memory, presence, and cognition
● Functional freeze, burnout, and the myth of personal failure
● Neurodivergence as adaptation,not disorder
● The hidden role of shame in diagnosis and illness
● Emotional repression, chronic pain, and digestive issues
● Complex trauma as a pattern of sensory processing
● The body as the holder of systemic oppression and ideology
● Addiction, sexual trauma, and the survival response
● The necessity of interoceptive accuracy for true healing
● Why healing is not personal,it’s collective and relational
● Integration as an ongoing daily practice
● Post-traumatic growth and reclaiming your inner capacity
● What’s coming in Season 5: emotions, expression, and transformation

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