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Jun 7
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E094 - Your Relationship is Failing: Qui...

Mike Thurston
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Diego Perez, widely known by his pen name Yung Pueblo joins the show to share the inner journey that led him from emotional chaos to global recognition as a voice for self-awareness and healing. Before the books, the quotes, and the millions of readers, there was a personal reckoning: addiction, overstimulation, and the need to change from the inside out. Meditation became the turning point, helping him rebuild his relationship with stillness, discipline, and emotional honesty.

Diego's new release "How to Love Better" is out now: https://lnk.bio/a8IF

00:00 Introduction
02:00 How Diego created the Young Pueblo pen name and what it means
04:31 Partying hard at university and realising it was self-avoidance
06:13 Health collapse at 23 and the wake-up call that changed everything
08:46 Rugby, gym life, and how Mike avoided spiralling at university
10:14 Early motivations behind Mike’s fitness journey
11:47 Building discipline through meditation and the “mental gym” concept
13:08 Why you don’t need to become a monk to master resilience
14:38 How Silent 45-day retreats reset personal growth and relationships
16:45 Why Diego invests heavily in silent retreats every year
18:04 Meditation, scrolling addictions, and wisdom
22:23 Diego’s relationship with emotions
29:17 Why communication matters more than mind reading
31:06 Should you grow with a partner or find someone already emotionally aware?
35:03 Dating apps, and the dangers of chasing 2% better
40:27 Mike’s experience thriving after living alone for the first time
42:47 Solitude, presence, and why personal growth fuels better relationships
51:11 Learning to trust your intuition over generic dating advice
54:35 Mike and Diego reflect on career, self-knowledge, and relationship priorities
1:01:31 Handling conflict properly instead of expecting endless peace
1:10:02 Compassionate venture capital investing and startup mental health
1:18:16 Shifting social media landscapes and why newsletters matter more now
1:21:03 Loving the creative process and protecting deep work
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