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Jun 2025
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435: The Feminine Way to Have It All (Wi...

Monica Yates
About this episode

The (feminine) formula for success without sacrifice.

 

In this expansive AF episode, Monica is joined by powerhouse entrepreneur and mother of four, Jen Szpigiel. Together, they dive into the nuanced candor of true feminine leadership, motherhood, and building a multi-faceted life without sacrificing your identity.

 

Whether you're a high-achieving woman, a future mum, scaling your empire—or BOTH—this conversation will rewire how you see “having it all.”

 

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

 

🔥 The difference between living motherhood and performing it for the world

🔥 How women unconsciously use their kids to avoid expansion

🔥 What happens when you become the breadwinner and emasculate your man

🔥 Why the “village” disappeared—and how to call it back

🔥 The nervous system pattern behind burnout and overdrive

🔥 The timing lie women keep telling themselves—and how it keeps you small

🔥 The real cost of hiding your help and pretending you’re doing it all

🔥 Why so many women feel like they’re failing—even when they’re succeeding

🔥 One identity shift that changes how you lead, receive, and regulate

🔥 How anchoring into your kids as your why can actually amplify your magnetism

 

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As Mentioned In The Episode — 

 

Connect with today’s guest — Jen Szpigiel of Becoming Iconic®: https://www.instagram.com/becomingiconic/ 

 

⇢ Monica's Interview on The Iconic Podcast (essentially part one of this juicy episode): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/monica-yates-are-women-meant-to-be-the-breadwinner/id1500348470?i=1000682857437 

 

⇢ Read Monica’s article in ICONIC Magazine — Digital Copy: https://issuu.com/becomingiconic/docs/feb_issue-_digital_copy_/ 

 

Watch the FREE MasterclassHow to Have Him Lead You: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc 

 

Get the Gut & Skin Healing Classes30% off now through June 12th, 2025, with code GLOWUP30: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/gut-skin?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=summer-2025-launch

 

Order the BOOK Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/

 

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

 

⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

 

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at media@monicayateshealth.com to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.

 

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