May 31
49m 44s
Things That REALLY Matter with Becca Lory Hector & Carole Jean Whittington
What if asking for help wasn’t a weakness—but one of the most radical acts of self-trust an autistic woman can make?
In this powerful episode of our monthly Things That REALLY Matter series, Becca Lory Hector and Carole Jean Whittington go deep into a topic many autistic women carry quietly: why asking for help feels so hard—and how we begin to heal that wound.
Together, we unpack:
The cultural myth of independence—and the trauma of self-reliance
How masking and rejection train us to equate strength with silence
Why past help-seeking may have felt dangerous or shameful
Rewriting the inner dialogue: shifting from “I should do it all myself” to “I deserve support”
Creating your “Safe to Ask” list and learning to receive without guilt
How helping professionals can hold space for interdependence without overstepping autonomy
Whether you're navigating burnout or supporting someone who is, this episode offers insight, validation, and gentle next steps toward reclaiming your voice—and your right to ask.
💌 Companion Article: Why Asking for Help Feels So Hard as Autistic Women—And How to Start Healing That Wound
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