logo
episode-header-image
May 2025
46m 37s

Identity crisis

Unwell
About this episode
I thought I’d have good points this week on why it’s good to have community and stuff but I just ended up freaking myself out https://www.newyorker.com/culture/open-questions/does-anyone-really-know-you 
Up next
Jan 16
2025 debrief with photos // EP 96
this week i do something a bit different. i go through my camera roll month by month and randomly pick photos from the last year, then explain what was actually happening behind each one. some are funny, some are embarrassing, some are way heavier than they look. it turns into a ... Show More
43m 23s
Dec 26
advice session 4
we're back with another advice session from your submissions and we talk about girl code, betrayal, and what happens when you do something that doesn’t sit right in your body. i get into female friendships, dating your friend’s ex, why shame hits harder when it comes from other w ... Show More
1h 26m
Dec 12
romanticizing being alone
this week i talk about going quiet for a while and what happens when life forces you to slow down and sit with yourself. i get into my fear of being seen alone, why that feeling has followed me since i was a kid, and how i finally stopped letting it dictate my choices. i talk abo ... Show More
47m 13s
Recommended Episodes
Aug 2021
My problem with the concept of coming out
In this episode, I'm discussing everything wrong with the concept of coming out from the unnecessary stress & trauma that's inflicted on individuals that decide to come out to the fact that it's overrated. 
11m 53s
May 2021
First of... Introductions😁
Let's admit it, growing up isn't as much fun as we all thought. Nobody warned us about the anxiety, the stress, and the permanence of adulting. But here we are... Sometimes kicking ass, other times we simply want to throw in the towel. Either ways, you're not alone. Welcome 
2m 51s
May 2024
Life Updates & Lots of Changes
<div>So much has changed recently! I moved into a house and I’m a suburban housewife (kidding.. kind of), I’m living alone again, and I’m trying to find my groove. Let’s catch up.<br> <br> </div> 
28m 26s
Jun 2024
I'm Overwhelmed
Hola, hola! On today’s episode, I’m going to share how I’ve been feeling lately: overwhelmed. I’ll share some of the reasons why and how I’ve gotten better at dealing with it. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed lately, just remember: this too shall pass.See omnystudio.com/listene ... Show More
21m 13s
Sep 2024
God, I Don't Feel Like I'm Enough.
After dealing my whole life with identity issues, I have finally found freedom in who God says that I am. This is what I've learned... merch/ speaking inquiries: carewellington.com 
28m 33s
Aug 2024
Reverse AMA - I Have Some Questions for You Guys
<p>You know I value great advice. I love to give it and I love to get it! So today, I'm asking for your takes on a few things that have been on my mind lately. We’re also talking about getting comfy with initiating sex and “death grip syndrome."</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, ... Show More
28m 23s
Sep 2024
Valuable Lessons from My Eighth Year of Freedom
In 2021, I decided to stop doing annual updates. At that time, I thought I had FI figured out and was just living a "normal" life (so no need to talk about it anymore). Well, a lot has changed since then. Turns out, I didn't have everything figured out :/ I explain more in today' ... Show More
19m 6s
Sep 2024
5 conseils pour retrouver la motivation
tail spinning
15m 54s
Feb 2025
Why did I move to New Zealand?
I get this question a lot, so here’s my honest answer. 
2m 55s
Aug 2024
Feeling Safe: I'm gonna be ok no matter what
<p>For large transitions, and when you&#39;re scared you&#39;re not going to be ok. This episode recounts the events I mentally went through when moving out, and how I came to develop my sense of &quot;I&#39;m gonna be ok no matter what&quot; over a 2 year time span, after moving ... Show More
11m 52s