I thought I’d have good points this week on why it’s good to have community and stuff but I just ended up freaking myself out
https://www.newyorker.com/culture/open-questions/does-anyone-really-know-you
Mar 27
dinosaurs and dictatorships
From dinosaur documentaries to a TSA encounter that became an analogy for friendship, this week's episode helped me understand that everything is kind of a projection. i talk about living out of a suitcase, missing my flight, and falling down a rabbit hole of evolution, extinctio ... Show More
38m 2s
Mar 6
the danger of seeing the good in people
we’re back with another advice session from your submissions and this week we talk about toxic relationships, trauma bonds, and the danger of seeing the good in people who consistently hurt you. i get into why bad relationships can feel impossible to leave, why it sometimes feels ... Show More
43m 32s
May 2021
First of... Introductions😁
Let's admit it, growing up isn't as much fun as we all thought. Nobody warned us about the anxiety, the stress, and the permanence of adulting. But here we are... Sometimes kicking ass, other times we simply want to throw in the towel. Either ways, you're not alone. Welcome
2m 51s
Sep 2024
Valuable Lessons from My Eighth Year of Freedom
In 2021, I decided to stop doing annual updates. At that time, I thought I had FI figured out and was just living a "normal" life (so no need to talk about it anymore). Well, a lot has changed since then. Turns out, I didn't have everything figured out :/ I explain more in today' ... Show More
19m 6s
Feb 2025
Why did I move to New Zealand?
I get this question a lot, so here’s my honest answer. I was living in Singapore, feeling culturally adventurous, wanting to live everywhere, meet everyone, and get to know the whole world. But then I had a baby. At first I thought we’d raise him in Singapore, fluent in all the c ... Show More
2m 55s
Aug 2024
Feeling Safe: I'm gonna be ok no matter what
<p>For large transitions, and when you're scared you're not going to be ok. This episode recounts the events I mentally went through when moving out, and how I came to develop my sense of "I'm gonna be ok no matter what" over a 2 year time span, after moving ... Show More
11m 52s
<p>Il y a des jours où on est pas trop motivé, pas trop inspiré, où ca va pas trop - c'est normal, moi aussi je vis ca. Alors voila 5 conseils qui m'aident à retrouver la motivation et à me sentir mieux.</p><br><p>J'espère que ça vous aidera,</p><br><p>On se retrouve sur <a ... Show More