Identity crisis

exciting new announcement this week and life updates that made me think more about discipline and how I want to learn to trust myself again. recently a lot has come up around trying to outrun old versions of myself and realizing that change doesn't always leave your bad habits be ... Show More

presenting: my betrayal list. we also go through your submitted resolutions for 2026 and how they align with mine as well. i talk about the small things that let me down this year, why they stuck with me, and how disappointment builds quietly when you don’t name it. figuring out ... Show More

this week i do something a bit different. i go through my camera roll month by month and randomly pick photos from the last year, then explain what was actually happening behind each one. some are funny, some are embarrassing, some are way heavier than they look. it turns into a ... Show More

In this episode, I'm discussing everything wrong with the concept of coming out from the unnecessary stress & trauma that's inflicted on individuals that decide to come out to the fact that it's overrated. 

Let's admit it, growing up isn't as much fun as we all thought. Nobody warned us about the anxiety, the stress, and the permanence of adulting. But here we are... Sometimes kicking ass, other times we simply want to throw in the towel. Either ways, you're not alone. Welcome 

So much has changed recently! I moved into a house and I’m a suburban housewife (kidding.. kind of), I’m living alone again, and I’m trying to find my groove. Let’s catch up. 

Hola, hola! On today’s episode, I’m going to share how I’ve been feeling lately: overwhelmed. I’ll share some of the reasons why and how I’ve gotten better at dealing with it. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed lately, just remember: this too shall pass.See omnystudio.com/listene ... Show More

<p>You know I value great advice. I love to give it and I love to get it! So today, I'm asking for your takes on a few things that have been on my mind lately. We’re also talking about getting comfy with initiating sex and “death grip syndrome."</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, ... Show More

In 2021, I decided to stop doing annual updates. At that time, I thought I had FI figured out and was just living a "normal" life (so no need to talk about it anymore). Well, a lot has changed since then. Turns out, I didn't have everything figured out :/ I explain more in today' ... Show More

I get this question a lot, so here’s my honest answer. 

<p>For large transitions, and when you&#39;re scared you&#39;re not going to be ok. This episode recounts the events I mentally went through when moving out, and how I came to develop my sense of &quot;I&#39;m gonna be ok no matter what&quot; over a 2 year time span, after moving ... Show More