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May 2025
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Break Down Bonus Replay: How to identify...

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Saying we have a lot to unpack from S3E11 would be an understatement. Trauma therapist Katherine Ripley joins the podcast again to explain the difference between Intimate Partner Violence and Domestic Violence. She explains how to identify it and how to plain a safe exit strategy if you or someone you love finds yourself in an abusive relationship.

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Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Intro

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(00:27): Defining the difference between domestic violence and intimate partner violence.

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(04:18): Early signs that your partner may become abusive

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(09:24): How to create a safe exit plan if you're in an abusive relationship

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(11:48): Why victims may return to their abusers

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(13:55): How to accept that the person you love is abusive

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(16:17): First steps for victims of IPV

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(18:12): Words of encouragement for victims

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CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse


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