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May 26
37m 48s

I'm so F**king Hot for Myself!

Kim Anami
About this episode

“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!” 


 “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!” 


“I’m counting the minutes until I can get back into bed with…myself!” 


“I get wet just thinking about fucking…myself!” 


I LOVE THIS so much. 


One of the things we LOVE hearing about in the journeys of our Well-F**ked All Stars is when they fall madly, passionately in love with each other.  And themselves. 


When they describe this smouldering fire of self-love and desire, they use the same kind of language and energy as if they were talking about the relationship with their lover: 


Especially from women—men seem to have an easier time and much more permission to develop a sexual relationship—read: wanking—with themselves.


Many women have never put their fingers in their own vaginas. 


Many women think that self-pleasuring is boring and just “not for them”. 


Many women have no idea of the geography of their own anatomy, or what turns them on. 


Know thyself. The keys to the queendom are found… in your vagina. 


In this episode: 

  • The ultimate “love yourself first before you can find a parter”: loving and knowing your vagina
  • 5 tools for mastering self-love and orgasms
  • Doing Anami work alone 
  • Raising your frequency to attract a higher caliber partner in your next relationship 
  • The catharsis of vaginal orgasms: forget therapy and go f**k yourself instead 
  • Working hard at manifesting and achieving vs. getting well-f**ked and being magnetic instead 
  • The life-changing benefits of f**king the shit out of yourself

Join your squirting, orgasmic, well-f**ked women tribe.

In the Well-F**ked Woman, which is my 10-week online Salon for all things female sexual mastery, you’ll receive my full tutorials on:

  • Increasing your feminine magnetism and charisma
  • Enlightened oral, manual and deep throating techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer 
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy 
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body 
  • And much more! 

You can check out the free video preview series and take the quiz and find out ARE YOU UNDERF**KED?

Sign up NOW for my free video series to become a Well-F**ked Woman!

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