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May 26
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ATG 231: Turning Complicated into Collab...

JON ACUFF
About this episode

In this episode, I sit down with Ryan Leak to talk about his new book, How to Work with Complicated People. Ryan shares insights from coaching everyone from CEOs to NBA stars, explaining why talented people are often mislabeled as difficult, and how to maintain boundaries when success accelerates. We explore the warning signs of leaders going off the rails, Ryan's Mount Rushmore of books, and even his predictions for the NBA Finals. Whether you're dealing with complicated people or trying to avoid becoming one yourself, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom from someone who's constantly in the arena.

Ryan's Book List
Didn’t See It Coming by Carey Nieuwhof
The 16 Undeniable Laws of Communication by John Maxwell
Author Sarah Knight
EntreLeadership by Dave Ramsey

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