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May 2025
19m 59s

Did She Love You—Or Just the Role You Pl...

Andrew Ferebee
About this episode

You didn't fall in love.

You fell into a performance so polished, even you believed it.

This episode isn't about heartbreak. It's about the lie you built your identity around—and what happens when she leaves (or is distancing herself) and you're left alone with the man behind the mask.

This is not a podcast. This is a reckoning.

If you're done pretending, press play.

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