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May 14
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Perfect Match Meets The Ultimatum: Xanth...

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Perfect Match Meets The Ultimatum: Xanthi & Roxanne Unfiltered

It’s the Netflix reality crossover you didn’t know you needed! AD is joined by Perfect Match and The Circle star Xanthi Perdikomatis and The Ultimatum’s Roxanne Kaiser for a no-holds-barred girl chat covering everything from cultural identity on reality TV to relationships—and even a few surprising behind-the-scenes secrets.

Xanthi dishes on the difference between reality competition and dating shows and what Perfect Match taught her about love (and herself). Meanwhile, Roxanne gets real about the pressure of ultimatums, being a boss, and what it’s like to be labeled a villain.

AD and the women also drop some advice as they answer real relationship questions from What’s The Reality fans.

It’s the ultimate girl chat—so tune in for laughs, lessons, and the juicy truth behind the Netflix multiverse of messy love. 💬❤️🎬

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