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May 13
47m 43s

Hot Girl Walks & The Rise Of Soft Patria...

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
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Hey Lifers!
Britt’s having a rough trot today ?. We speak about some RSVP and allergy mishaps, lucid dreams and some of the darker sides of professional sport. Truth be told, are you interested when other people speak about their dreams? How about if they’re about angry gorillas?

There’s a piece of content that is popping off on socials at the moment from a podcast talking about how these young men want their partner to be able to not work and go on hot girl walks if they choose to.
This video seems to be of a similar rhetoric that we are seeing across a few different channels of social media and also in the social discourse where traditional gender roles are being sprouted as an optimum lifestyle that we should aspire to.

We ask, is this a caring provider and a man who wants to look after his partner or is it harmful, patriarchal messaging dressed up as modern masculinity?

We unpack:

  • Call out vs call in culture
  • The need for financial security
  • The ideologies of ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’ energies
  • Soft patriarchy 
  • Choice feminism

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