Why do we keep explaining... and explaining... and explaining — and still walk away feeling misunderstood (and kind of embarrassed)? 😵💫
In this week's episode we’re diving into why overexplaining is so common for high-achieving, anxious-attached girlies — and why it actually makes you feel less secure (not more).
We’ll talk about:
- How overexplaining is ... Show More
Aug 4
What To Do When Your Anxious Attachment is Pushing a Good Person Away
Hey Girlies! It's your girl Clare back at it with another episode of the BeThatHEalingGirl Podcast where we're diving into the real and sometimes messy parts of our love lives. 🌟 This week is all about self-sabotage. Yep, been there, sabotaged that especially with those sweet, s ... Show More
21m 19s
Jul 21
What To Do When Your Anxious Attachment is Pushing a Good Person Away
If you've ever felt like you're pushing a good person away because of your anxiety, or if you're caught in the same argument cycle every few weeks, this episode is a must-listen for you. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or even married and finding those anxious triggers ... Show More
21m 19s
Oct 2025
013- Stop Explaining Yourself to the Wrong People
Send us Fan MailThere’s a quiet kind of exhaustion that comes from constantly trying to make yourself understood by people who are committed to misunderstanding you. You explain, clarify, defend, and prove — not because you’re weak, but because you ache to be heard.In this episod ... Show More
32m 44s
Nov 2024
The One-Person Show Nobody Asked For
How often do you find yourself replaying a conversation, second-guessing every little thing you said? In this episode, we’re diving into that spiral of overthinking, breaking down why we get caught up in it and how to finally stop. We’ll cover ways to catch ourselves in the act, ... Show More
22m 11s
Nov 2023
143. Why do we replay conversations?
<p>Have you ever had the experience of leaving a conversation and feeling like something you said was off, you sounded weird, you were awkward, worrying about what this person may think of you? This experience is much more common than we think and in today’s episode we break down ... Show More
30m 10s
Jan 2023
54: How to set (and by extension, receive) boundaries
One of many reasons we may feel anxious in relationship: we're actually feeling resentful and not communicating our needs and boundaries at all, or effectively! In this episode, I break down what boundaries are as well as what they aren't, some perspective shifts for recovering p ... Show More
49m 9s