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May 8
49m 41s

John's celibacy, Shaun's criticism, and ...

Shaun Galanos and John Kim
About this episode

Today, John and Shaun get real about celibacy, the unexpected wisdom of edging and what it means to hold space for change. As they dive into how we show up for friends, and navigate endings with grace (or not), they explore what it means to sit with discomfort and desire.

Also on the table: sex in senior living homes, prostate surprises, and the enduring mystery of midnight erections.

And then comes the twist: a conversation that starts with podcast logistics quickly turns into something deeper—a surprising reveal that could shift the future of the show. It’s heartfelt, awkward, and unmistakably human.

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