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May 4
12m 16s

Your Desire to Be 'Good' Is Destroying Y...

Pearlieee
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Are you trapped by the desire to be seen as 'good'? Today, I dive into how society’s expectations and the constant pressure to live up to an ideal version of “good” can destroy your life. I share my personal story of trying to meet these impossible standards and how they led me to lose touch with my true self. It’s time to let go of the cage of ‘goodness’ and embrace who you really are. This painful truth will set you free—if you’re brave enough to face it. Watch as we challenge the norms and discover the freedom that comes from letting go of these societal expectations.

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